Why me?

My parents got divorced when I was in seventh grade. So afterwards I figured, maybe I would whine a little bit, blame my self for everything that had transpired, that would lead to me suffering from depression and starting trouble at school. Only none of that happened, maybe I'm a little different(I'm definitely a little odd) but I didn't blame myself, I wasn't the one who hit my mom and brought domestic violence in to the home. I hate how the media gives the message of, make sure your kids know it isn't their fault and that is what both my parents said after the beginning days of their counseling. My belief is this, if the kids think that, it probably was partially their fault...really, and secondly if they start having issues in school and in other aspects of their life after the divorce then they are just using that as an excuse or already bad parenting just got a little worse due to the split. I didn't plan on blogging about this, but it sort of came to me. See I don't like talking about or being open about my past and what I've gone through in my life's journey, I would rather try to be mysterious and let people come up with their own assumptions about me. But that would be fighting my personality, I'm more of a what you see is what you get and well here you have it kind of guy. Sure I will tell you what I think, but it is probably not at all what you want to hear. Unfortunately, this type of personality does not draw a crowd and usually gets spit on rather than hit on. That is why I make adjustments when necessary, act one way but think another, some people just don't know how to deal with me.